Weekend Marriage Tip: Bathe Your Partner in Pure Light

It's easy to get caught up in daily life.

There are always 27 hours of things to do in 24.

Especially if you have kids, jobs, in-laws, and other parts of life to deal with.

Most of us probably try to do too much.

But unless you make a conscious decision to slow down, you probably won't.

And during periods of life it's just fine.

What's not fine is if you get very stressed and forget what's important.

The most important part of life - outside of your relationship with God - is your marriage.

Have you spent 5 minutes today improving your relationship with your partner?

I don't mean pushing on them for changes you want.

You know my method in the Science of Happy Marriage is against that kind of coercion.

Yes, sometimes it's very difficult to coordinate your schedule with your partner's.

Maybe you don't even HAVE 5 minutes to spend together each day for deepening your marriage.

Maybe your partner isn't even "into" taking time out for that.

No matter, there's something you can do which is very powerful.

It might sound a little strange to you if you aren't used to such things.

But it can have a very powerful effect.

Here's what you do.

Just see your partner in your mind's eye.

Forget all about the daily life issues, "problems" or disagreements or anything else.

Just visualize him or her...

Then bathe him or her in pure light.

Just imagine light streaming down and through and all around your partner.

Do this for a couple minutes.

You don't need to keep doing that for very long.

It's not a marathon or an ordeal.

Just imagine that pure light streaming down on, through and around your partner.

Then notice how differently - at least for that moment - you feel and think about him or her.

It may even be a few seconds difference.

But if you do this, you WILL feel differently and think differently about your partner.

Now would you like that state of positive feeling and thinking to be in your marriage ALL the time, going both ways?

Toward your partner and toward you too?

Pure light, pure joy, pure pleasure, pure love?

Here's where to get started:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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How may I help you?

How may I help you?

I'd like to be of service to you in having a better marriage.

Have you already seen my program at 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

It's my masterwork of 30 years of helping couples have great marriages.

It "goes around" all the "problem solving" solutions out there to the heart of the matter.

The true heart of the matter.

But apparently there's something wrong... for you.

You haven't gotten the program yet.

Is it the price?

Is it that you don't believe it can help you?

Is it that you want something different?  

How may I serve you better?

Please write me at 

DrMax@easymarriagecounseling.com 

and let me know.

I'll help in any way I can.

Sincerely,

- Dr. Max

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Are you with the right person?

It's a natural enough question, and one you've probably asked yourself.

"Am I with the right person?"

Let me just say this before we go any further.

You probably are with the right person.

But maybe in the wrong way.

Assuming you're married, at one time weren't you pretty sure you were marrying the right person?

(Some people have a bad feeling from the beginning, I hope that's not you.)

So let's change the question to this:

How could I be with my partner in a way that feels right?

The fastest, simplest and best way to get there is...

to begin to function on the Creative and not the Competitive Plane.

Almost everyone I've ever shown how to do this finds out something.

They find out that they are indeed with the right person.

But because of cultural mmisunderstandings they were doubting.

Use the Creative method and not the Competitive one.

It will make all the difference.

I explain it all here:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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You don't understand how hard it is for us, Dr. Max

I hear it every day.

"Dr. Max, you just don't understand our situation.

It's different and worse than for others."

Not true.

Everybody has the same relationship issues when there are challenges.

I don't care if you are young or old.

I don't care what your race is, your cultural background or your religion.

It's all exactly the same.

And there is one universal answer to every marriage challenge.

It's right here

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

- Dr. Max

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If you're not married, here's why

Then I hope you have a sense of humor.

This is a bit of a stinging, sizzling editorial.

But of course it applies equally well to people who are married but doing a lousy job of it

Read it here

Disclaimer:  No, I didn't write it :-)

- Dr. Max

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Cute video with serious side about money

Enjoy it

And it makes you think also :-)

-- Dr. Max

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To be fully known and truly loved

Marriage - true marriage - is the best chance you'll ever have to be known and loved in this life.

 

All other relationships can have a wonderful aspect and pleasure and meaning to them.

 

But all other relationships are, by definition, limited.

 

Your children can never know you fully.

 

Your friends can never know you fully.

 

Even your best friend can never know you fully.

 

They don't sleep with you.

 

They don't have to deal with you when you are not at your best.

 

They don't have to deal with being taken for granted!

 

Only the intimacy of marriage offers these opportunities fully.

 

Being known completely and being loved completely.

 

That's the ultimate joy in this life.

 

It's what's available to you when you follow the Prescribed Way.

 

It starts here 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/2index.html

-Dr. Max

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Health, wealth and happiness - this way

Research study after research study prove it.

Being happy in marriage is the best thing you can do.

It produces more overall health.

It produces more wealth.

It produces a greater sense of well-being.

It produces more internal confidence.

It produces a sense of calm and pleasure.

Happily married people have a better life.

Yes, but how do you achieve that?

Especially if you have a long history of troubles?

Here's how you do it.

Thousands of people now have happy marriages who never thought they could, by

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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Peach buds once again too early

-- - Dr. Max

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How much energy have you wasted in your marriage?

How much has the energy in your relationship been wasted?

How much time have you spent in disappointment?

Maybe disagreements, fighting, feeling betrayed?

Feeling misunderstood?

Thinking "if only" my partner would do this or that..

Wondering if you'd be happier with someone else?

Trying to figure out if you are happy or CAN be happy with your partner?

All of that is dissipation of energy.

It's a waste of good, pure, valuable energy.

Instead, turn ALL that energy toward following the Prescribed Way.

THAT leads to happiness and wellbeing.

There is no other way to be truly happy in marriage.

If you are ready to discover the way of happiness...

If you are ready to stop wasting energy in your marriage...

Start here

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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Only God can save your marriage

 You need to rely on something larger than yourself to really be happy.

When I was 18 I didn't believe this.

When I was 30 I didn't believe this.

When I was 40 I said something's wrong.

Then finally I got it.

I was running on ego.

Then suddenly everything came unraveled.

I didn't know why.

I didn't know how.

Finally I asked God to help me.

Then things turned around.

Not immediately, but not too long after.

The more you turn away from a spiritual center, the less you'll receive.

Turn toward that spiritual center, you'll receive.

And you'll give.

Because you'll know how generous God is with us.

When everything's going great in life it seems like your ego is enough.

You can "stand alone" on your own and seem to do fine.

What you are doing in your world seems to work.

It doesn't seem like you need any help.

It seems like whatever you decide and whatever you do turns out fine.

However, that's not really all of life, is it?

Especially when you're with a partner.

Sometimes it's easy, sometimes it's very challenging.

If you are relying only on your own ego to meet challenges you'll fail.

Maybe not today.

Maybe not tomorrow.

But soon enough.

Then you'll know what you need to do.

Here's where to start getting a true spiritual base in your marriage

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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The Exact Four Steps You Can Take to Achieve Everything You Want

Hi, this is Dr. Max

I want to invite you to a very special free teleseminar.

I'd like to show you how to use the EXACT simple method I use to create successful results over and over again.

It's the 4 step method I've used to achieve every goal I seek.

I've set goals and then met and surpassed them as business owner, writer, entrepreneur, currencies and futures trader, professional psychologist, artist, scholar,  fly fisherman and husband.

My relationship programs and seminars are used world-wide to help people have better relationships, better lives and better marriages.

My business strategies, sales methods and writing have helped clients and friends sell millions of dollars worth of their goods and services.

My writings (in my own name and in pen names) have achieved bestseller status and provided an endless supply of clients.

I practice my passion of fly fishing when and where I want and have achieved a high level of expertise in it - sometimes the fish don't agree, however :-)

I live where I want, travel where I want and do what I want.

And all by following a very simple 4 step process I'd like to teach you how to use.

It's the method I teach to all my entrepreneurial, business and personal development clients as well.

If practiced correctly it is 100% successful.

It cannot fail.

You WILL achieve everything you desire using this method.

I'd like to show you this simple 4 step method in a live teleseminar.

The teleseminar is free and I promise you will have a plan to achieve everything you want by the end of the teleseminar.

Join me and prosper

http://www.GoalinFour.com

Dr. Max

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Here's how I achieve every goal I ever set

You're invited to a fre teleseminar where I'll teach you the exact four simple steps I use to achieve every goal I ever set.

This is the exact same I teach my $300 an hour clients.

Sign up here

http://www.GoalinFour.com

Dr. Max

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Experts WANTED: I will promote YOUR expertise

EXPERTS WANTED: Starting a new service for personal development coaches, therapists and specialist experts in personal development. You'll give a free teleseminar and then conduct a one month coaching program in teleseminar/webinar format. I handle ALL the details. No technical skills required :-) Interested in participating as one of the experts? Send me a message if you are.

DrMax@easymarriagecounseling.com

Your specialty does NOT have to be relationships

Can be nutrition, health, astrology, exercise, money management, time management, personal development, dreams, whatever you are interested in PLUS what a lot of other people would be interested in.  Let me know your specialty.

Let me know if you have a list already and any products you currently sell if any (not required).  Plus how many twitter followers and facebook friends and other networking experiences or talents you have.

Dr. Max

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Don't talk to your friends about your marriage

It seems like the most natural thing in the world.

You love your friends.

One of the things that friends tend to do is talk about problems.

It feels good to have someone seem to understand.

Go ahead... Talk with your friends about anything you want.

Except about your marriage and your partner.

Keep that conversation:

1. Inside your own heart, soul and head to work out.

2. As a conversation with your partner AFTER you are clearer about the Prescribed Way.

Why not talk to friends?

There are three big reasons.

The first is the problem of "training your friends."

Your friends will tell you anything they think you want to hear.

If they think you want to hear that your partner is wonderful, that's what they'll tell you.

If they think you want to hear that your partner is ______, that's what they'll tell you.

The second is that your friends don't know any more about marriage than you do.

The third is that it's disloyal to your partner.

Get your own head straight, start here

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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More time together with your partner is NOT the cure (could make things worse)

I had the radio on while I was exercising.

It was Sunday morning and there's a program I always listen to.

I don't like the program.

The reason I listen is because it's a popular program about mariage and family.

Trying to keep up with what people are saying.

There are 2 reasons I don't like this program.

One is that they always slam on men.

They constantly portray men as inept at relationships or fools.

Men are not inept at relationships or fools.

Men are different from women in how they approach relationships.

We've been bamboozled by the Oprahfication of relationships, that it needs to be the "woman's" way.

The other reason I don't like this program is that they offer the usual "canned" answers to marriage "problems."

The one this guy was harping on is that you need to spend more time together.

Now I ask you, if the way you think, feel and view one another is negative, is more time together a good thing?

No.

More time together will confirm all those preconceived notions.

It's like saying the cure to a drinking problem is more drinking.

Lots and lots of drinking.

That's not the way it's done.

To be different with one another you have to be fundamentally different inside.

There's only one way to do all of this differently, and that's through the Science of Happy Marriage.

Once you master this, THEN the more time you spend together, the better.

Here's where you start to do things the right way in your marriage

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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my apologies

I received a very constructive criticism from a subscriber yesterday.

 

Actually I got a few more but this one was very pointed and accurate.

 

He pointed out that he had tried to get the Valentine Special 50% off.

 

I had already taken the offer down because of my error reading the calendar.

 

He pointed out that this was very unfair.

 

He said he had worked in customer service for 25 years.

 

He and his wife appreciated my help and messages, but that I had made an error.

 

I agree 100%.

 

So I have replaced the offer, and made it even easier to get, with a 2 pay plan.

 

This special will run until Tuesday February 8 at midnight EST.

 

Here are the details

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

 

To your future happy marriage!

 

Dr. Max

 

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Why is our culture against marriage?

 Why is our culture against marriage?

It might seem odd to say that our culture is against marriage.

But the problem is not "getting married," it's staying married.

No one ever plans for what will happen AFTER the honeymoon.

The "bridal business" is insanely lucrative.

I know a man who makes over 6 million dollars a year selling... wedding favors.

Yes, those little trinkets people give out at weddings.

No, he doesn't make them, he doesn't even see them, his company just distributes them.

Check out the number of bridal/bride magazines online, just put in a search.

Have you seen the prices of even a moderately priced wedding these days?

Wedding planners - now there is another lucrative field.

But why aren't there marriage planners?

I don't mean problem solvers, like marriage counselors, relationship advice givers, etc.

They come on to the scene after there's already serious trouble.

And usually too late.

And usually without any real tools to do the job.

It's because these folks - God bless them - don't know HOW to plan a marriage.

Wouldn't it be a good idea to plan out the marriage in advance?

Heck for the fee of a modeately priced wedding, I'd fly to anywhere in the world to make sure your marriage was deeply happy for the rest of your life together.

Or even at this point in your marriage I'd still make the same deal.  :-)

Not necessary though, just follow the Prescribed Way.

Your happiness in marriage is already planned out.

All you have to do is follow the plan.

Here's where you start

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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The best chance you'll ever have to be truly loved

Marriage - true marriage - is the best chance you'll ever have to be known and loved in this life.

All other relationships can have a wonderful aspect and pleasure and meaning to them.

But all other relationships are, by definition, limited.

Your children can never know you fully.

Your friends can never know you fully.

Even your best friend can never know you fully.

They don't sleep with you.

They don't have to deal with you when you are not at your best.

They don't have to deal with being taken for granted!

Only the intimacy of marriage offers these opportunities fully.

Being known completely and being loved completely.

That's the ultimate joy in this life.

Here's where to start with true marriage:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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The Dance of Closeness and Separateness In Your Marriage

If you've been married for 6 months or more you've discovered something.

 

You and your partner have a little bit different "dancing" styles.

 

No I don't mean out at the club :-)

 

Well maybe that too.

 

But I mean in terms of being close and taking some distance.

 

You feel like being close and (let's just say he for now)  he feels like being separate.

 

Then he feels like being close and you feel like being distant.

 

Now you may have made the wrong conclusion.

 

Happens all the time.

 

You may have concluded "men only want to be close when they want sex."

 

Or you may have conluded "women only want to be close when they want cuddling."

 

Or something like that.  Let's not spend too much time coming up with examples,

 

Remember though... Forest and not trees.

 

Don't jump to "problems."

 

Don't think "we're incompatible after all."

 

Instead think this:

 

It takes two to tango.

 

You are different from each other... a bit.

 

Not as much as you think.

 

You both want the same things.

 

You both want Relationship.

 

Just in slightly different ways and at slightly different volumes and slightly different times.

 

All I'm saying is don't jump to conclusions.

 

Relax, take a deep breath, and realize that your marriage, the core of your relationship is what counts.

 

Use what we talk about as the Creative Attitude.

 

Talk about it.

 

The minute you start "competing" it's game over.

 

The dance won't be a "tango," it will be a "tangle."

 

Slow down a bit.  Take it easy.

 

People have different ways of dancing.

 

Many ways of dancing is what makes the world interesting.

 

I'll show you how to answer ALL these questions the right way... the permanently enjoyable way.

 

Go here:

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

 

- Dr. Max

 

 

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It takes two to tango

If you've been married for 6 months or more you've discovered something.

You and your partner have a little bit different "dancing" styles.

No I don't mean out at the club :-)

Well maybe that too.

But I mean in terms of being close and taking some distance.

You feel like being close and (let's just say he for now)  he feels liek being separate.

Then he feels like being close and you feel like being distant.

Now you may have made the wrong conclusion.

Happens all the time.

You may have concluded "men only want to be close when they want sex."

Or you may have conluded "women only want to be close when they want cuddling."

Or something like that.  Let's not spend too much time coming up with examples,

Remember though... Forest and not trees.

Don't jump to "problems."

Don't think "we're incompatible after all."

Instead think this:

It takes two to tango.

You are different from each other... a bit.

Not as much as you think.

You both want the same things.

You both want Relationship.

Just in slightly different ways and at slightly different volumes and slightly different times.

All I'm saying is don't jump to conclusions.

Relax, take a deep breath, and realize that your marriage, the core of your relationship is what counts.

Use what we talk about as the Creative Attitude.

Talk about it.

The minute you start "competing" it's game over.

The dance won't be a "tango," it will be a "tangle."

Slow down a bit.  Take it easy.

People have different ways of dancing.

Many ways of dancing is what makes the world interesting.

I'll show you how to answer ALL these questions the right way... the permanently enjoyable way.

Go here:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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Happy Groundhog Day! Or not.

Groundhog Day is a 1993 American comedy film starring Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell.

Bill's character wakes up every morning to find that the same things are happening all over again.

He's doing the same things over and over again every day.

He's getting the same results as the day before.

Nothing is changing.

Sound familiar?

Most of us live our lives that way.

Most of us live our marriages that way.

Ready for it to stop being Groundhog day in your marriage?

Go here

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

And get a fresh start

-- Dr.Max

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(SALE ENDS TONIGHT AT MIDNIGHT) It's almost like I'm paying you to fix your marriage!

Sale ends tonight at midnight EST U.S. Time  (NO EXCEPTIONS) 

Read this carefully.  A couple people bought this at full price yesterday.

Don't do that, this is a sale to help you out.

It's almost like I'm paying you to fix your marriage.

As a special for my readers only, I'm holding a sale on 

The Science of Happy Marriage complete course.

 

Half off until midnight EST Tuesday Feb 4, 2011.

 

That will give you 10 days to fix your marriage before Valentines Day.

 

Plenty of time to make a major difference.

 

Every day I get two kinds of emails from my readers.

 

The first kind is people asking desperately for help in their marriage.

 

I find they are almost all asking for the wrong things.

 

If they will focus on the right things, they'll see immediate improvement.

 

IMMEDIATE.

 

I send them back to watch this presentation

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

 

The second kind of email I get is people calling me a "miracle worker."

 

They are referring to The Science of Happy Marriage, of course, not to me.

 

Only God works miracles.  

 

I just tell you about how to fix your marriage.

 

The right way, the permanent way.

 

Now some people have been asking for a discount because of the economy.

 

And because their jobs are shaky or they've lost them.

 

If that's you, I'm very sorry.

 

But beyond sorry I'm doing something about it.

 

That's to give you a massive discount on the only marriage and relationship course you'll ever need.

 

So here's what you do.

 

First, go to this url if you haven't seen the video and watch it.

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

 

DO NOT buy off of that link unless you want to pay full price (if so, thank you!)

 

You'll see that the regular price is $197 for this amazing, complete course, which includes 6 full months of personalized coaching messages!

 

But I'm giving you 50% off or $98.50 off.

 

Go to this page, which will ONLY be available until Tuesday 4 February at midnight.

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

 

This is the only course you'll ever need and it's a way to completely and permanently solve your marriage problems and create a happy marriage, no matter who you are.

 

I charge $200 an hour for marrriage counseling, so you're paying for about 28 minutes of time in my office, but getting a lifetime of help from me on your marriage.

 

Because of this special price.

 

Now go get it, because I promise you that at midnight February 4, 2011 EST, the page is disappearing.

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

 

 

- Dr. Max

 

 

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