did you meet each other in a past life?

 You meet someone and you're sure you were lovers in a past life. 

After two weeks with them, you realize why you haven't 

kept in touch for the last two thousand years. 

Al Cleathen

Of course that's a rather sarcastic joke, but...

Unfortunately it's how many people feel.

Did you really meet in a past life?

I have no idea, but it can sure feel like it.

Let's pretend you did.

Wouldn't it be your job in "this life" to fix things?

So you didn't have to keep repeating the problems infinitely?

And let's face the facts.

As far as we REALLY know, you have only one life to live.

You won't get a second chance.

I strongly suggest you fix your marriage today.

"Oh but Dr. Max I'm going to divorce this one and marry a new one."

Sorry Charlie, you're going to make the same mistakes with the new one.

Fix things today.

I will help you get started fast and effectively right now.

Just click a big red button, it's easy:

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Dr. Max

Master Marriage Counselor

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To grow in our ability to love ourselves we need to receive love as well

 To grow in our ability to love ourselves we need to receive love as well. 

John Gray

Many of the people I've met who were great at giving love had a hard time receiving it.

This can be due to several things, some positive and some not so positive.

Some are just used to giving and literally don't  know how to receive.

Some feel it's just their job to give and don't realize how important it is to receive.

Some just like to be in control of the situation and receiving challenges that control.

Some dont believe they are worthy.

But let me tell you this...

This has always shocked clients of mine who are in this boat...

Not to receive love is STINGY and MEAN.

What it says to the person trying to give you love, in his own way, I don't want what you have to offer!

If you don't receive love from your partner in the way he gives it, you're being very rejecting.

The main thing is, not everyone does things just like you do.

Your partner is probably doing the best he can to show you love.

But you have trouble receiving it because it's not served on the right "platter" or the way YOU would do it.

Learn to have different, human, expectations of other people

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Dr. Max

Master Marriage Counselor

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It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.

It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.

Friedrich Nietzsche

In my practice over 30 years I have heard it a million times:

"We still love each other but we can't get along."

It's because you didn't learn to be friends.

It's because you aren't loyal to one another in the ways that really count.

It's because you take each other for granted.

It's because you don't give each other the benefit of the doubt.

It's because you don't know how to talk to each other anymore.

It's because you don't allow each other to grow.

Learn how to do all these things.

Click a bright red button and get started.

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Dr. Max

Master Marriage Counselor

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People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.

 "People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges."  

Joseph Newton

In this quote, Joseph Newton has captured the essential problem of failing or painful relationships.

The opposite of that is of course building bridges.

How do you build bridges?

Primarily by letting down your defenses.

How do you let down your defenses?

1. You have to know what they are.

2. You need to have the skill set to do the actions needed.

Here's where you learn those skills:

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Dr. Max Vogt

Master Marriage Counselor

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Scared of vampires yet? You should be.

If you think Dracula is a blood sucker, try something even worse.

Try bad marriage.

New data from Ohio State University proves it.

People - especially women - suffer physiological damage from a poor relationship.

They don't heal from disease as well.

They tend to be much more vulnerable to viruses of all kinds.

They have more allergic reactions.

Their health is generally much poorer.

What do they define as a "bad marriage?"

It's not as dramatic as you'd think.

They weren't studying terrible abusive dangerous marriages.

As a matter of fact a lot of seemingly "ok" marriages qualify.

Bad marriage in the study is only defined as one in which

- people don't handle disagreements well

- there tend to be zingers or sarcasm

- they don't work together well to solve problems

A marriage that just isn't satisfying can lead to 

- more illness

- less quality of life

- even a shortened life span

So you see... a bad marriage IS like a vampire.

It steals your health and your soul.

The thing is, there's no need to go on like you are.

There are simple solutions right here:

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Dr. Max

Master Marriage Counselor

Go here and click or die unhappy:

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

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How to 'wake up' inside your dreams

Lucid dreaming is the ability to wake up
"inside" your dreams.

You're a character, alive in this special
world - where you can do literally anything you want!

Click here to experience it:
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You can go flying. Meet your hero. Act out your
WILDEST FANTASIES.

If you've ever experienced lucid dreaming, you'll
know exactly what I'm talking about.

Well, now you can enjoy experiences like this EVERY
SINGLE NIGHT.

With the 'Lucid Dreaming Kit', you'll learn how to
activate the full power of your mind to control not
only the *content* of your dreams... but stay asleep
long enough to enjoy them!

What do you want to dream about?

From enjoying the thrills of the world's largest
roller coaster to taking a well-earned vacation.

From chatting with Einstein to traveling through time.

From getting rid of stage fright to spending a passionate
night with the person of your dreams!

Can you imagine enjoying adventures like these
WHENEVER YOU WANT... literally, on demand?

What's more... can you imagine *knowing* you're dreaming...
so you can be anyone you want... do anything you want... in
a safe, private world in which you're the master?

Well, that's what Bradley Thompson GUARANTEES -- when
you try out one of NEW Lucid Dreaming Kit.

Want to learn more?

Here's the official website:
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I strongly recommend you check it out. HIGHLY recommended!

Enjoy,
Dr. Max Vogt

Master Clinical Psychologist

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What could you do if you had more confidence?

Some people have TONS of confidence. They can
talk to anyone. They're the life and soul of every
party. They can command an audience on a whim.

These people weren't born with confidence.

They LEARNED it.

And so can you. But you don't need to throw
yourself into embarrassing situations to push through
your current mental limitations.

No "mustering up" courage is required.

You can skip DIRECTLY to extreme self-confidence
by using this simple NLP 'trigger' that activates the
new behavior pattern instantly. Find out how at:

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See results by TONIGHT. Guaranteed.

Your insider,
Dr. Max Vogt

Master Clinical Psychologist

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Instant confidence trigger

Some people have TONS of confidence. They can
talk to anyone. They're the life and soul of every
party. They can command an audience on a whim.

These people weren't born with confidence.

They LEARNED it.

And so can you. But you don't need to throw
yourself into embarrassing situations to push through
your current mental limitations.

No "mustering up" courage is required.

You can skip DIRECTLY to extreme self-confidence
by using this simple NLP 'trigger' that activates the
new behavior pattern instantly. Find out how at:

http://confidencetrigger.com/?afl=24835

See results by TONIGHT. Guaranteed.

Your insider,
Dr. Max Vogt

Master Clinical Psychologist

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Have Sex, Not Debates

There might be a place for debates in politics.

But there is no place for debates in marriage.

Discussions, yes.

Never debates.

In marriages, debates have only one result:

People feel crappy about themselves and each other afterwards.

Instead, spend that time and energy on a better project.

Learn to have great sex.

Here's how

http://www.LoveSexAndMarriage.com

Stop hatin', start participatin'

Let the lovefest begin (just in time for the weekend).

http://www.LoveSexAndMarriage.com

Dr. Max

Master Marriage Counselor

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Real marriage is not for wimps

"I love you. I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I've ever had, and no matter what happens to us in the future, everyday we are together is the greatest day of my life. I will always be yours."

- From The Notebook

 

It might shock you to know that there are long-term married couples who feel this way about one another almost 100% of the time, day in and day out, for decades.

 

Real live people... not just people in a movie, in a short term passion fest.

 

Real marriage is not for wimps.

 

Real marriage is for the strong, the proud and the brave.

 

Anybody can be driven by horniness or desperation or imagination to feel that way for a short period of time.

 

This is why Hollywood movies are ultimately so meaningless.

 

Yes, they do a great job of showing the initial encounters of passion, but they never really tell you what happens after.

 

And everything that happens that means anything happens "AFTER" the initial encounters.

 

Now I'm going to make a statement and you might not like it.

 

If you're not feeling what is expressed in that quote at least some of the time in your marriage or long term relationship, you're wasting your time.

 

A relationship without that kind of passion and drive - at least SOME of the time for goodness sake - well it just doesn't seem to me like it's worth having.

 

If you feel that way too and aren't experiencing that kind of depth, it's time to do something about it.

 

Start here:

 

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

 

Dr. Max

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Think and grow rich for 2012

Hey,

Think and Grow Rich was a ground-breaking book that
helped millions of people create a life of success and
abundance by simply adjusting the way they think.

The problem is... it was written in 1937... which
makes the advice at least 70 years out of date!

Today's world is infinitely more complex. The
industrial revolution is behind us, and thanks to
the Internet and technology, we've entered
an age of inherently interdependent connectivity.

I'm sure Napoleon Hill could never have dreamed of
today's world... with Facebook, and smart phones, and
20-something dot-com millionaires.

The world has changed dramatically. And if you want to
thrive in today's economy, you need to bring the
content up-to-date... and follow a guided step-by-step,
PRACTICAL plan for what works in 2012.

That's why I recommend you take a look at The Master
Blueprints.

Think of it like Think and Grow Rich -- on steroids.

It's a modern, practical framework for optimizing your
thoughts to accept abundance, wealth, health and
happiness into your life... as a normal extension of the
way you think.

You'll receive the original book when you download the
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* THE "THINK AND GROW RICH" VIDEO

Watch as this video lays out all the main points
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* THE "THINK AND GROW RICH" AUDIO

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* THE FIVE HOUR ONLINE VIDEO SEMINAR

This is the core of the training program. This online
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You can find out more and enroll in this course here:
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The fee is $47.

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Offer is good until October 31, 2012 only. You can
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Your insider,
Dr. Max Vogt

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how to stop unwanted thoughts

3% of us suffer from Unwanted Thoughts.

Crazy thoughts. Obsessive thoughts. Shameful thoughts.
Thoughts that appear from nowhere.

It's a phenomenon known as "White Bear Syndrome," an
effective branch of OCD.

And it's enough to make you feel INSANE.

You perform rituals until it feels "right."

You check and re-check things. You think "bad" thoughts,
and try to get rid of them. You may obsess about the future.

Unwanted Thoughts can seriously hold you back.

If you are a sufferer, then you might be interested
in the very latest finding from leading psychology
expert Bradley Thompson.

He's found a secret little method of "zapping" all
Unwanted Thoughts at source, ensuring they NEVER occur
again. It's blown people away across the globe - and
he's receiving critical acclaim from his peers.

Do YOU suffer from Unwanted Thoughts?

CLICK now to check out Bradley's new website:
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And learn how YOU can stop that feeling of being
out of control - starting TODAY.

Enjoy,
Dr. Max Vogt

Master Clinical Psychologist

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Law of attraction on STEROIDS

How can you get real results like these guys using the
Law of Attraction?

   "Cosmic ordering works! I said I wanted a hit TV
   show. It had to be something my girls would watch
   - and I wanted it by October. I got the call about
   Deal or No Deal in August. It's spooky."
   -- Noel Edmonds, TV presenter + UK host of
   "Deal or No Deal"

   ----

   "I placed an order for a specific type of man to
   arrive during a particular week. When the week
   arrived, a guy with all nine specific characteristics
   was delivered. Wowwww! After that I was convinced
   that cosmic ordering definitely worked."
   -- Barbara Mohr, Author

   ----

   "If you want to discover how to enjoy money, love,
   success and health, just by asking for it - then check
   out this new course from Bradley Thompson. I've used
   it myself - and it really works. Powerful stuff!"
   -- Sanjay Agrawal, Author

What are they talking about? It's not 'regular' Law of
Attraction... it's something that almost no other book, DVD
or CD ever discusses (and you've probably never heard of.)

Find out only at this site:
http://advancedcosmicordering.com/?afl=24835

Your insider,
Dr. Max Vogt

Clinical Psychologist

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