"I love you. I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I've ever had, and no matter what happens to us in the future, everyday we are together is the greatest day of my life. I will always be yours."
Ask Dr. Max, POB 2532, 200 Coyote St., Nevada City, CA 95959, USA
- From The Notebook
It might shock you to know that there are long-term married couples who feel this way about one another almost 100% of the time, day in and day out, for decades.
Real live people... not just people in a movie, in a short term passion fest.
Real marriage is not for wimps.
Real marriage is for the strong, the proud and the brave.
Anybody can be driven by horniness or desperation or imagination to feel that way for a short period of time.
This is why Hollywood movies are ultimately so meaningless.
Yes, they do a great job of showing the initial encounters of passion, but they never really tell you what happens after.
And everything that happens that means anything happens "AFTER" the initial encounters.
Now I'm going to make a statement and you might not like it.
If you're not feeling what is expressed in that quote at least some of the time in your marriage or long term relationship, you're wasting your time.
A relationship without that kind of passion and drive - at least SOME of the time for goodness sake - well it just doesn't seem to me like it's worth having.
If you feel that way too and aren't experiencing that kind of depth, it's time to do something about it.
Start here:
Dr. Max
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Ask Dr. Max, POB 2532, 200 Coyote St., Nevada City, CA 95959, USA
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