test

Are you burned out and unhappy in your
relationship?

If you've tried counseling, and talk, and it
still isn't getting better -- then you will
LOVE this email.

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My buddy is testing this -- should he offer it for free or charge?
Right now it's free, so get it before he changes his mind:

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Okay, here's the full story.

Can you go from horrible relationship to
completely in love again in two weeks?

My buddy says yes. As he says about one
couple:

"They went from being so on the outs that it
was him-on-the-couch and
her-in-a-separate-bedroom...to being
completely and totally in the 'can't keep
their hands off each other' love..."

How did they do it?

They used a new little known scientific
discovery that is rocking the world of those
couples who have discovered this secret.

The media calls it the "Love Hormone" and I
suppose that's as good a word as any.

Build up the Love Hormone in your brain --
and in your partner's brain -- and you will
be SO in love and so will your partner.

Listen to what you might look forward to in
as little as two weeks:

"He started taking out the trash and I didn't
even ask"

--> "She loves to initiate sex now and we're
having it almost every day...I ALWAYS used to
initiate and we were hardly doing it at all"

--> "He has this amazing new patience with the
kids now...where did THAT come from?"

--> "She looks younger and younger every day --
even her friends at the gym asked her what
diet she was on and if she had work done..."

--> "I got her to try this even though she didn't
want to. It blew us both away. ROWWWRR! I
didn't know she had it in her but it's the
best it's EVERY been."

And guess what?

You can get a complete free
course that explains it all to you.

Go here now to claim your free course (before they take it
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I recommend this!

--Dr. Max

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You can`t change what people are.. without destroying who they were

This series of quotes and comments is brought to you by

Dr. Max Vogt, Master Marriage Counselor and author

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

"You can`t change what people are.. without destroying who they were."

- the Butterfly Effect

How often it happens that people fall in love with someone enchanted by them...

And then later the same characteristics we fell in love with now piss them off?

I'll tell you how often it happens.

All the time.

Every single relationship.

But here's the difference between short term and long term happiness in relationships.

In short term happiness you just hang around as long as you like the original sauce.

In long term happiness you develop and evolve and learn to love new things.

You see your partner as a developing, dynamic being.

But you also see that they are still who they were and you love them for that.

The old joke is:

Women marry men hoping they will change, and

Men marry women hoping they won't.

In both cases it's a mistake and a bit of an exploitation of your partner.

Here's an idea.

Stop trying to change your partner.

Stop trying to make them who you want them to be.

Give 'em a break.

Look, you only have three choices.

1. Bail out.

2.  Stay and be miserable.

3.  Stay and be happy

Which will it be?

In any case, whatever you decide, I'll help you.

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Dr. Max

Master Marriage Counselor

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Stop Expressing Your Feelings!

This series of quotes and comments is brought to you by

Dr. Max Vogt, Master Marriage Counselor and author

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

"...psychological research also suggests that 

unbridled expression of emotion interferes with

concentration and performance. Simply yelling 

when we’re angry or pouting when we’re 

discouraged does nothing to alte rthe feelings—

and certainly does not place us closer to 

resolving the situations responsible for 

the upset in the first place."

Brett Steenbarger

Many people have the mistaken notion that if 

they and their partner just "express all their 

thoughts and feelings" that they would be 

"communicating" and creating more intimacy 

and a better relationship.

Research and a whole lot of clinical experience

have proven that this is absolutely wrong.

But isn't it good to express your thoughts

and feelings?

After all, haven't women been yelling and screaming

and pouting toward their men forever complaining

that the men don't "express their feelings?"

Yep.

What good has this done?

Zero.

Why?

Because men know it's not good to be always

expressing their feelings.

It can cause harm and damage.

Better idea:

Start behaving more lovingly, more graciously,

with more acceptance and tolerance and love.

Then clarify your thinking toward being grateful

and loving toward your partner.

THEN express THAT.

But isn't it good to talk out grievances?

Frequently the answer is, surprisingly, no.

Most people don't have the skill set to do this well.

That's why we have so many mediators and damned lawyers.

Try this instead:

Start behaving more lovingly, more graciously,

with more acceptance and tolerance and love.

Then clarify your thinking toward being grateful

and loving toward your partner.

THEN express THAT.

It will do you and your relationship a hell of a lot more good.

Need help doing this?

It is a skill set, just like playing golf, playing tennis, cooking a good dinner.

Learn how

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Dr. Max

Master Marriage Counselor

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Can you still be YOU in your relationship? Sacrifice is NOT noble.

Can you still be YOU in your relationship? Sacrifice is NOT noble.

This series of quotes and comments is brought to you by

Dr. Max Vogt, Master Marriage Counselor and author

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

i didnt come back to tell you that i cant live without you.

i can live without you.

i just dont want to.

- jennifer aniston - rumour has it

Either way I'll help you get on the right path.

Being your own individual person in your relationship is 50% of true happiness.

Sure there are many ways you want to merge with your partner.

And that feels great.

Up to the point where you start to feel totally smothered!

Or up to the point where you're sacrificing too much of who you are to be in the relationship.

They say sacrifice is noble.

I don't think so.

Working together where you come to a mutual agreement that helps both of you is noble.

If you don't get this or it seems too complicated to make happen, just ask.

I will help you.

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Dr. Max

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Don't wait around, believe in someone

"Some people can't believe in themselves until someone else believes in them first."

- Good Will Hunting

The problem is that most people get this backwards.

They (you?) are waiting for someone to believe in them.

The way to clear the way is to believe in someone.

Tell them you believe in them.

They will be so amazed at your good judgment they will start believing in you.

Think this is funny or ironic?

Try it.

I will help you get your head on straight about relationships.

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Dr. Max

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Just spit it out!

This series of quotes and comments is brought to you by

Dr. Max Vogt, Master Marriage Counselor and author

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

"If you love someone... you say it, right then, out loud. Otherwise... the moment just passes you by."

- From My Best Friends Wedding

If your love is strong, speak it.

If you really care, get it out there and say it.

Now, not tomorrow, and don't wait for the anniversary.

On the other hand if your love is lukewarm, tepid, shallow and flat....

Then what in the world are you doing?

Go one way or the other.

Either warm up your relationship or get out.

Either way I'll help you get on the right path.

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Dr. Max

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Thinking about running away? Read this.

I guarantee that we'll have tough times. I guarantee that sooner or later one, or both of us will want to get out. But I also guarantee that if I dont ask you to be mine, I'll regret it for the rest of my life.. because I know in my heart you're the only one for me.

- Runaway Bride

Most people are unrealistic and crossing their fingers at the altar.

They might agree to

I, (Bride/Groom), take you (Groom/Bride), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.

But almost no one actually thinks they'll be poor, sick, or things will go to heck.

Sooner or later all these things - and many more you can't predict - happen anyway.

Are you ready to stick it out but don't know how?

I'll help, starting right now

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

- Dr. Max

Master Marriage Counselor

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Is your heart breaking?

I know I have a heart because I feel it breaking.

- - Wizard of Oz

The good thing about feeling your hearrt breaking is that you still have feelings.

The danger comes when you no longer have feelings.

Especially in a marriage.

Things can go cold, very cold, very fast.

While you still have feelings and your heart can still break... do something different.

I will help you.

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Dr. Max

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Are you lying to your children? (Fish or cut bait)

"The all-too-frequent mistake of waiting until the kids are grown (and the woman is past her prime) is the most irrationally selfish action a husband can take. Such a man not only wastes the best years ofhis own life,but also cheats his spouse of her youth and subjects innocent children to a daily lie. With this kind of scenario playing out so regularly, is it any wonder that children grow up thinking that love isn't a necessary ingredient for a healthy marriage?" - Robert Ringer

I've heard it a thousand times.

"I think we should stay together for the sake of the children."

But if you're not going to give them a healthy model of adult relationships, what good does that do?

The only real answer is fish or cut bait.

Either become real and true intimate lovers and spouses or make a clean break.

Do one or the other but don't just sit there.

Let's make a move:

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

- Dr. Max

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Real marriage is not for wimps!

"I love you. I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I've ever had, and no matter what happens to us in the future, everyday we are together is the greatest day of my life. I will always be yours."

- From The Notebook

It might shock you to know that there are long-term married couples who feel this way about one another almost 100% of the time, day in and day out, for decades.

Real live people... not just people in a movie, in a short term passion fest.

Real marriage is not for wimps.

Real marriage is for the strong, the proud and the brave.

Anybody can be driven by horniness or desperation or imagination to feel that way for a short period of time.

This is why Hollywood movies are ultimately so meaningless.

Yes, they do a great job of showing the initial encounters of passion, but they never really tell you what happens after.

And everything that happens that means anything happens "AFTER" the initial encounters.

Now I'm going to make a statement and you might not like it.

If you're not feeling what is expressed in that quote at least some of the time in your marriage or long term relationship, you're wasting your time.

A relationship without that kind of passion and drive - at least SOME of the time for goodness sake - well it just doesn't seem to me like it's worth having.

If you feel that way too and aren't experiencing that kind of depth, it's time to do something about it.

Start here:

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Dr. Max

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Here's the help I promised you

Brand New and powerful

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Dr. Max

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LAST CHANCE to save your marriage... get one FREE!

All my bestselling relationship products I've created over the last 10 years are coming down tonight.

From now on the only way you'll be able to work with me is through individual coaching.

This is your last chance to get one of these outstanding programs...

And the best part is you can buy one and get one FREE!

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Just go there, purchase one product and send me the receipt along with your choice of a second program...

I'll write you back and send you the second program.

This is your last chance FOREVER to get one of these outstanding programs.

From now on it will cost a minimum of $197 to get my help with your marriage.

Right now it can cost as little as $39.95 to get some of the best relationship help around.

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Take advantage of this outrageous offer.  

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My wife laughs at me.

I swore I'd never go on the internet when it was first started.

Now I have thousands of web pages and dozens of sites.  

But not for long.

I put my first digital (pdf and audio) relationship program online in 2002.

(I had already been practicing marriage counseling and individual therapy for 20 years.)

It was the result of my desire to help more people than I could in my private practice.

The first one was immediately hugely successful in terms of sales and reviews.

It was fun and exciting to be in on this first big wave of the internet.

Then I got requests for other more specialized programs.

Programs to help people who are suffering from affairs...

Husbands who are lost in how to be with their wives...

How to communicate better...

How to have better and more fulfilling sex.

Having created these programs and helping thousands of people all over the world was great.

They are inexpensive, convenient and best of all, they work.

I've been very proud of what I've created and the way these programs have helped so many people.

Fast forward to 2012.

The internet world has changed so dramatically over the years.

Not necessarily for the better.  Mostly for the worse, IMHO.

In my field of marriage counseling the amount of crap online is enough to make me puke.

Marketers have made relationship programs which I guarantee - promise - will ruin your marriage.

I could name names but I won't.

If you're a subscriber and spy on my list, you know who you are.

These marketers don't care.

They're only in it for the money, and couldn't care less about you.

They think you are a joke.

They figure out fancy marketing tricks and internet tricks to get lots of people and turn them into suckers.

I don't want to be associated with them.

In my field the internet has turned into a bad neighborhood.

It's even more of a nasty cutthroat game than it used to be.

Doing business online is far more difficult than it once was.

It's like a four lane highway loaded with trucks carrying manure and driving 20 miles an hour.

You can't get around them and they stink up the place.

Plus the whole business side of the internet now is too full of red tape, lies and scams.

Much more expensive, complicated and demanding to do business online.

And I've never been much of a geek :-)

I'm taking some new directions.

Long story short, I'm going to take all my relationship programs offline within a few days.

All of them.

They will no longer be available through regular internet access.

I'm going to replace everything with one on one coaching.

But, I don't want to take something away from you.

I would rather give something to you as a loyal subscriber and customer of mine.

So here's what I will do.

Go here:

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

It's super-easy.

Purchase any of my programs.

When you get your receipt send it to me with the name of the second program you'd like for free.

Dr. Max

Offer expires in 47 hours from now.

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

 

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Buy one, get one Free (expires in 47 hours, read now)

My wife laughs at me.

I swore I'd never go on the internet when it was first started.

Now I have thousands of web pages and dozens of sites.  

But not for long.

I put my first digital (pdf and audio) relationship program online in 2002.

(I had already been practicing marriage counseling and individual therapy for 20 years.)

It was the result of my desire to help more people than I could in my private practice.

The first one was immediately hugely successful in terms of sales and reviews.

It was fun and exciting to be in on this first big wave of the internet.

Then I got requests for other more specialized programs.

Programs to help people who are suffering from affairs...

Husbands who are lost in how to be with their wives...

How to communicate better...

How to have better and more fulfilling sex.

Having created these programs and helping thousands of people all over the world was great.

They are inexpensive, convenient and best of all, they work.

I've been very proud of what I've created and the way these programs have helped so many people.

Fast forward to 2012.

The internet world has changed so dramatically over the years.

Not necessarily for the better.  Mostly for the worse, IMHO.

In my field of marriage counseling the amount of crap online is enough to make me puke.

Marketers have made relationship programs which I guarantee - promise - will ruin your marriage.

I could name names but I won't.

If you're a subscriber and spy on my list, you know who you are.

These marketers don't care.

They're only in it for the money, and couldn't care less about you.

They think you are a joke.

They figure out fancy marketing tricks and internet tricks to get lots of people and turn them into suckers.

I don't want to be associated with them.

In my field the internet has turned into a bad neighborhood.

It's even more of a nasty cutthroat game than it used to be.

Doing business online is far more difficult than it once was.

It's like a four lane highway loaded with trucks carrying manure and driving 20 miles an hour.

You can't get around them and they stink up the place.

Plus the whole business side of the internet now is too full of red tape, lies and scams.

Much more expensive, complicated and demanding to do business online.

And I've never been much of a geek :-)

I'm taking some new directions.

Long story short, I'm going to take all my relationship programs offline within a few days.

All of them.

They will no longer be available through regular internet access.

I'm going to replace everything with one on one coaching.

But, I don't want to take something away from you.

I would rather give something to you as a loyal subscriber and customer of mine.

So here's what I will do.

Go here:

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

It's super-easy.

Purchase any of my programs.

When you get your receipt send it to me with the name of the second program you'd like for free.

Dr. Max

Offer expires in 47 hours from now.

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Posted via email from Marriage Counseling, Save Your Marriage, Stop Your Divorce