It's almost like I'm paying you to fix your marriage (ends tomorrow!)

this ends Tuesday night at midnight EST (U.S.)

It's almost like I'm paying you to fix your marriage.

 

As a special for my readers only, I'm holding a sale on 

The Science of Happy Marriage complete course.

 

Half off until midnight EST Tuesday Feb 4, 2011.

 

That will give you 10 days to fix your marriage before Valentines Day.

 

Plenty of time to make a major difference.

 

Every day I get two kinds of emails from my readers.

 

The first kind is people asking desperately for help in their marriage.

 

I find they are almost all asking for the wrong things.

 

If they will focus on the right things, they'll see immediate improvement.

 

IMMEDIATE.

 

I send them back to watch this presentation

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

 

The second kind of email I get is people calling me a "miracle worker."

 

They are referring to The Science of Happy Marriage, of course, not to me.

 

Only God works miracles.  

 

I just tell you about how to fix your marriage.

 

The right way, the permanent way.

 

Now some people have been asking for a discount because of the economy.

 

And because their jobs are shaky or they've lost them.

 

If that's you, I'm very sorry.

 

But beyond sorry I'm doing something about it.

 

That's to give you a massive discount on the only marriage and relationship course you'll ever need.

 

So here's what you do.

 

First, go to this url if you haven't seen the video and watch it.

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

 

DO NOT buy off of that link unless you want to pay full price (if so, thank you!)

 

You'll see that the regular price is $197 for this amazing, complete course, which includes 6 full months of personalized coaching messages!

 

But I'm giving you 50% off or $98.50 off.

 

Go to this page, which will ONLY be available until Tuesday 4 February at midnight.

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

 

This is the only course you'll ever need and it's a way to completely and permanently solve your marriage problems and create a happy marriage, no matter who you are.

 

I charge $200 an hour for marrriage counseling, so you're paying for about 28 minutes of time in my office, but getting a lifetime of help from me on your marriage.

 

Because of this special price.

 

Now go get it, because I promise you that at midnight February 4, 2011 EST, the page is disappearing.

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

 

 

- Dr. Max

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It all comes back to the forest and not the trees (How to fix your marriage)

I always make this comparison:

Focusing on problems in your marriage is like focusing on individual "diseased" trees within a magnificent healthy forest.

When you get obsessed with a few trees that aren't in great shape, you miss the whole point of the wonder of the forest.

In this case I'm talking about the "forest" of a happy marriage.

To be truly happy in marriage you have to learn to focus on the big picture.

You have to have a true spiritual basis to your marriage.

No, I didn't say a religious one, a spiritual one.

This means seeing the greater meaning and greater beauty.

That's the first step toward a truly hapy marriage.

Stick with the Science.

Learn and practice the Prescribed Way.

This is the best way to continue to see the "big picture" and not get hung up on "problems."

Here's where to start:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

Posted via email from Marriage Counseling, Save Your Marriage, Stop Your Divorce

One day left to save $98.50 (half off sale) - ENDS TOMORROW!

It's almost like I'm paying you to fix your marriage.

As a special for my readers only, I'm holding a sale on 

The Science of Happy Marriage complete course.

Half off until midnight EST Tuesday Feb 4, 2011.

That will give you 10 days to fix your marriage before Valentines Day.

Plenty of time to make a major difference.

Every day I get two kinds of emails from my readers.

The first kind is people asking desperately for help in their marriage.

I find they are almost all asking for the wrong things.

If they will focus on the right things, they'll see immediate improvement.

IMMEDIATE.

I send them back to watch this presentation

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

The second kind of email I get is people calling me a "miracle worker."

They are referring to The Science of Happy Marriage, of course, not to me.

Only God works miracles.  

I just tell you about how to fix your marriage.

The right way, the permanent way.

Now some people have been asking for a discount because of the economy.

And because their jobs are shaky or they've lost them.

If that's you, I'm very sorry.

But beyond sorry I'm doing something about it.

That's to give you a massive discount on the only marriage and relationship course you'll ever need.

So here's what you do.

First, go to this url if you haven't seen the video and watch it.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

DO NOT buy off of that link unless you want to pay full price (if so, thank you!)

You'll see that the regular price is $197 for this amazing, complete course, which includes 6 full months of personalized coaching messages!

But I'm giving you 50% off or $98.50 off.

Go to this page, which will ONLY be available until Tuesday 4 February at midnight.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

This is the only course you'll ever need and it's a way to completely and permanently solve your marriage problems and create a happy marriage, no matter who you are.

I charge $200 an hour for marrriage counseling, so you're paying for about 28 minutes of time in my office, but getting a lifetime of help from me on your marriage.

Because of this special price.

Now go get it, because I promise you that at midnight February 4, 2011 EST, the page is disappearing.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

- Dr. Max

Posted via email from Marriage Counseling, Save Your Marriage, Stop Your Divorce

"Many marriages would be better if the husband and wife understood they are on the same side" Zig Ziglar

Amen, brother.

In some ways that's all there is to it.

Dr. Max

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

Posted via email from Marriage Counseling, Save Your Marriage, Stop Your Divorce

Valentine Gift: $98.50 off for you (48 hours only) 50% discount

It's almost like I'm paying you to fix your marriage.

As a special for my readers only, I'm holding a sale on 

The Science of Happy Marriage complete course.

Half off until midnight EST Tuesday Feb 4, 2011.

That will give you 10 days to fix your marriage before Valentines Day.

Plenty of time to make a major difference.

Every day I get two kinds of emails from my readers.

The first kind is people asking desperately for help in their marriage.

I find they are almost all asking for the wrong things.

If they will focus on the right things, they'll see immediate improvement.

IMMEDIATE.

I send them back to watch this presentation

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

The second kind of email I get is people calling me a "miracle worker."

They are referring to The Science of Happy Marriage, of course, not to me.

Only God works miracles.  

I just tell you about how to fix your marriage.

The right way, the permanent way.

Now some people have been asking for a discount because of the economy.

And because their jobs are shaky or they've lost them.

If that's you, I'm very sorry.

But beyond sorry I'm doing something about it.

That's to give you a massive discount on the only marriage and relationship course you'll ever need.

So here's what you do.

First, go to this url if you haven't seen the video and watch it.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

DO NOT buy off of that link unless you want to pay full price (if so, thank you!)

You'll see that the regular price is $197 for this amazing, complete course, which includes 6 full months of personalized coaching messages!

But I'm giving you 50% off or $98.50 off.

Go to this page, which will ONLY be available until Tuesday 4 February at midnight.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

This is the only course you'll ever need and it's a way to completely and permanently solve your marriage problems and create a happy marriage, no matter who you are.

I charge $200 an hour for marrriage counseling, so you're paying for about 28 minutes of time in my office, but getting a lifetime of help from me on your marriage.

Because of this special price.

Now go get it, because I promise you that at midnight February 4, 2011 EST, the page is disappearing.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/valentine

- Dr. Max

Posted via email from Marriage Counseling, Save Your Marriage, Stop Your Divorce

How to stay strong in your marriage when life gets a little crazy

Wedding vows ask you if you will hang in there when it gets tough.

 

Everyone says yes.

 

Of course no one on their wedding day imagines what's coming.

 

Half the ones at the altar this very day will be divorced in 10 years.

 

And 80% of the other half will be moderately to supremely unhappy.

 

And half of the rest of them are either oblivious, addicted or don't care.

 

And only about 1/10th of the remaining number are happy.

 

Totally, totally unnecessary when all everyone needs is the Science of Happy Marriage.

 

Divorce is bad but marital unhappiness is no picnic either.

 

And don't think your kids think you're happy when you're not.

 

"We can't divorce, we can't do that to the kids."

 

But is it OK to inflict a lifetime of your marital unhappiness on them?

 

What kind of model is that?

 

"But kids, we stayed together for your sake."

 

"Thanks a lot mom, that really gave me a wonderful vision of marriage and adulthood."

 

Now all that is kind of harsh, I know, but here's the solution.

 

Give yourself a REAL chance to stay together and be happy.

 

It isn't hard, but you have to change your direction.

 

Stop.

 

Take a turn.

 

Go a new way.

 

Go the way thousands of others are going... toward happy marriage.

 

There is a science of happy marriage and it is an exact science.

 

Here are the details

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/

 

To your great relationship future,

 

Dr. Max

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Poor poor poor Jennifer Lopez (The video)

If she had watched this, maybe things would be different

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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Sad story about Jennifer Lopez (they saved my marriage, ugh)

Jennifer Lopez credits her twin boys for saving her marriage.

She said that Marc Anthony and she weren't always happy.

Boo hoo.

But the "kids" made them stronger.

She says they still fight but the kids make them "see a bigger picture."

She also credits the kids for bringing her out of a depression.

She says her kids "saved her" and "saved her marriage."

Wow.  She's an infant.

How responsible is she?

She puts this huge responsiblity off on her children?

Can't she grow up?

It's her job to save her own marriage and pull her behind out of depression.

What is this doing to the children?

This is the kind of sickness that these narcissistic movie starts demonstrate all the time.

If she and Marc Anthony had discovered the Science of Happy Marriage, they wouldn't have to destroy their children.

They could grow up and handle things themselves.

If you know Jennifer Lopez, send her here:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

If she will promise to take a little responsibility, I'll even send her the 6 month coaching message program.

If you can get Jennifer to buy this I'll give you the program.

I'd love to help her grow up.

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Have to stand on your head to get noticed by your partner?

 Sometimes it seems like your partner hardly notices you.

 

After all you've done for him.

 

After the ways you've been there for him, done things for him.

 

The ways you've gone out of your way to be available.

 

The way you always think of the little things that make life run smoothly.

 

The tasks and chores you do that no one notices.

 

The birthdays and anniversaries and other holidays only you seem to remember.

 

The connections with relatives you maintain.

 

The family you hold together with love and caring.

 

Couldn't he just occasionally show you some true appreciation?

 

You don't ask much, just a little consideration now and then.

 

When he does show warmth, it always turns to sex.

 

Couldn't he just have a nice warm conversation, you hold each other?

 

Is he deaf, dumb and blind when it comes to relationship?

 

If these are the ways you feel, you are not alone.

 

However, all of the ways you've ever thought of to "make things different" will fail.

 

It's not your fault.

 

But you are on the wrong path.

 

And no one else will set you on the right one.

 

All of the things MOST people - incuding counselors, pastors and advice givers - have ever thought of will fail.

 

It's not their fault either.

 

They haven't heard this presentation yet.

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

 

Once they do they'll know it's time for a course correction.

 

You'll get it.

 

Things can be brand new in your marriage.

 

Not doing the things you've always done and been taught to do, but doing things a new way.

 

The Science of Happy Marriage Way.

 

To your great relationship future,

 

Dr. Max

 

P.S. No one else is talking about this yet.  Why not?  They don't know about it.

Soon everyone will, but you heard it here first.

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/

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Changes in Marriage Don't Have to be Scary (The Video)

Many people are afraid of change in marriage.  Here's why you don't need to be afraid:

-- Dr. Max

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Change can be scary

Change can be scary.

Especially when it comes to making big changes in your marriage.

A lot of people think "well we could make things worse."

It's one of the reasons many people don't go to marriage counselors.

They've heard horror stories about things getting a lot worse.

It's a justified fear.

Many marriage counselors go in and tinker around.

Relationship advice givers and even pastors too.

You might think well let's just leave well enough alone.

However, there is a way to drastically improve your marriage.

It works differently from any other approach.

This is because it doesn't focus on "problems"

When you focus on problems you make things worse.

The Science of Happy Marriage works differently.

It's the Formula that never fails to improve your marriage.

It's not scary.

It's very easy.

All you do is listen to some audios.

Your marriage changes automatically.

Scientifically.

You'll smile more because you'll be happier.

Your partner will love it because there's nothing scary about it.

It all starts here:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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Are you intimate in your marriage? (the videl)

Intimacy is not what you think:

http://onlinemarriagecounseling.posterous.com/are-you-intimate-in-your-marriage-the-video

To your great relationship future,

Dr. Max

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Pope Benedict XVI calls for better marriage preparation

Quoted from an article by CNA/EWTN News January 25, 2011

Pope Benedict XVI has called for effective pastoral action to break the “vicious circle” begun when Christian couples are allowed to marry without adequate preparation and knowledge of the sacrament’s requirements.

His comments came in a Jan. 22 address to officials and lawyers of the Tribunal of the Roman Rota at the inauguration of the judicial year.

“No one has the right to a marriage ceremony,” Pope Benedict said. He noted that the “right to marriage” in canon law refers only to the right to celebrate an authentic marriage.

The marriage bond is one of unity and indissolubility. It aims for the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of their children, he continued.

Marriage preparation intends to promote the “free celebration of a true marriage” that creates “a bond of justice and love between the spouses.”

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There's a much more direct , powerful and immediate way to prepare for marriage here, available to anyone of any faith:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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Are you intimate in your marriage (the video)

True intimacy begins here:

-- Dr. Max

Posted via email from Marriage Counseling, Save Your Marriage, Stop Your Divorce

Intimacy in marriage (not what you think)

Almost everyone is confused about the meaning of the word "intimacy."

And that confusion causes a lot of unnecessary suffering in marriage.

Everyone gets a little part of what it is, but few get the whole picture.

Yes, it includes sex.

But that's not all of it.

Yes, it includes feeling close and warmly toward another person.

But that's not all of it.

Yes, it includes communicating openly and truthfully with one another.

But that's not all of it.

None of these are even most important part of intimacy.

Intimacy really begins in your own heart and soul.

These other things are behaviors.

It begins with your own courage to be who you truly are.

It begins with the courage of revealing your true self to your partner.

And then incredible magic begins to happen.

Irresistible things begin to happen.

You stop getting hung up in "problems."

Things you used to consider "problems" now just don't bother you anymore.

Because you are enjoying your life together in a whole new way.

You'll discover what true intimacy is.

It's not some shallow "Cosmo" tips about relationship.

It's way beyond Dr. Phil.

It's what runs the happiest marriages on earth.

You can do it too.

It all begins here

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

To your great relationship future,

Dr. Max

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Loyalty in marriage (are you really loyal?)

Dr. Max discusses loyalty in marriage and asks "are you REALLY loyal?"

The Rate Your Marriage quiz is free and results are INSTANTANEOUS

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Loyalty in marriage

Today I want to talk to you a little bit about loyalty in marriage.

There's the "obvious" level of loyalty and then there's the "not so obvious" levels.

Everyone understands that part of loyalty in marriage means sexual faithfulness.

But what is NOT so obvious is all the other areas of loyalty that are at least as important.

Standing up for your partner in public.

Standing up for your partner among friends.

Standing up for your partner among other family members.

NOT carrying on covert little "flirtatations" that may seem innocent but definitely aren't.

More important, being sharp or mean with your partner.

There is NEVER any reason to be mean.

It might seem like it's appropriate, but it never is.

Even these are somewhat obvious, because they are outer behaviors.

What's even more important than any of these, though, is what you carry in your heart and mind.

Are you wishing your partner well continuously and with genuineness.

Are you viewing them with a loving heart and mind?

Are you careful not to blame your partner for any area of your unhappiness?

Do you see your partner as the perfect being God created?

Or are you going around finding fault with your partner?

Your renewed marriage - the REAL marriage you were born to have -  begins here:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

Talk soon,

Dr. Max

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The secret to long term marriage happiness

Two couples who had been married a combined total of 138 years were interviewed.

One couple had been married 65 years.

They were asked what the secret to long term happy marriage is.

Their answer?

"We just get along well."

Now isn't that helpful?

It's nice for them, but how about others.

It's not enough to just say "get along."

Here's the reality.

Some people unconsciously and spontaneously practice The Science of Happy Marriage.

Good for them.

However 99.9% of people aren't that lucky.

They need to understand this and learn how to practice it first.

Problem is no one has ever revealed the secret before.

But I did.

So there are two steps for you.

First, get your marriage rating.

Then watch my presentation on the Science of Happy Marriage.

Start here

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

To your future happy marriage,

Dr. Max

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The relationship between satisfaction at work and satisfaction in marriage

From time to time I find a good article related to happiness in marriage.

This one is pretty good.

http://www.thirdage.com/marriage/link-between-job-satisfaction-and-happy-marriage-0?page=0,1

However, let me hasten to point out that once again, the researcher and advice giver focuses on "problems" and solutions.

Those are always temporary fixes.

Temporary fixes are always temporary.

When you fix one problem, ten crop up.

Don't focus on problems or "solutions."

That will only frustrate you further.

For a permanently happy marriage, start here:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

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Your partner needs an attitude adjustment! (The Video)

Your partner needs an attitude adjustment

Or not 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

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Your partner needs an attitude adjustment

Your partner needs an attitude adjustment

If only your partner would have a little better attitude.

If only he (she) would do things just a little differrently.

If only he (she) would express more appreciation.

If only he (she) would be more fair and considerate.

If only he (she) would be more physically affectionate.

Sure seems like things would be different then, doesn't it?

Well, I've got bad news for you.

It's you.  You need an attitude adjustment.

The way you're framing what would "work" is wrong.

What you think would improve things won't.

Almost everyone has this wrong.

Even marriage counselors get mixed up in this misguided idea.

Marriage counselors, relationship advice givers, "would be" psychologists alert:

YOU need an attitude adjustment.

There's a better way to be happy in marriage.

It's a new way.

When I discovered this, I took all 12 of my programs offline.

You can't buy them anymore.

I took my books off the bookshelves of the stores.

Even I had it wrong before.

After 30 years of hard work I finally discovered the Formula.

The Science of Happy Marriage is the new way.

It's the only way, you can throw everything else out.

It's what works permanently and works for everyone, no matter who you are.

Here's where I show you the answer:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

To your great relationship future,

Dr. Max

P.S. You can see this presentation now and get on the path,

or you can wait until your marriage is even worse off.

It's up to you

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/

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Stop Trying to "Fix" Your Marriage (The Video)

Marriage counselors and relationship advice givers are well meaning good people, but...

- Dr. Max

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

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Stop trying to "fix" your marriage

Marriage counselors and relationship advice givers are good people.

I've known quite a few of them over the years of my practice.

They are well-meaning and sometimes their advice can help... temporarily.

But almost without exception they are caught in the same trap you are.

They are trying to help you "solve problems."

Like there was something "mechanical" wrong with you that could be fixed.

You tell them there's this or that problem and they try to help you get a solution:

"We just can't communicate anymore."

"He never tells me his feelings."

"She doesn't want sex."

And then the counselor goes to work to try to help you fix it.

I've got bad news for you.

When you focus on a problem you make things worse.

The counselor gets your husband to speak up about his feelings.

You feel better.  

You think this is progress.

He feels worse, and now he feels resentful and trapped.

I can give you examples until the cows come home, but they all turn out the same.

You try to fix one problem, ten come up.

There's a better way.

It's called the Science of Happy Marriage

You can learn about it here in this presentation.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/

To your great relationship future,

Dr. Max

P.S. People all over the world are discovering a completely new and differrent way.

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

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Stop focusing on problems in your marriage!

Do this instead

- Dr. Max

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Rate Your Marriage (Happy or Unhappy) - The Video

Download now or watch on posterous

RateYourMarriage1.mov (8314 KB)

Is your marriage as happy as these couples?

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Are you still focusing on problems in your marriage?

The main reason you don't solve "marriage problems" is because you focus on problems.

Let me head you off.

The answer's not what you think.

Some people say you should focus on "solutions" instead.

Not really.

That is still focusing on "problems." 

Even if you're trying to "solve" them.

The Science of Happy Marriage states that problems beget problems.

When you focus on anything, that's what you tend to see.

When you buy a blue car, you notice there are a lot of them around.

When you buy a new pair of shoes, all of a sudden everyone's wearing them.

It's just because you noticed.

When you focus on anything you tend to block other things out.

Energy flows where the attention goes.

There is a much better way to be happy in your marriage.

It's called the Prescribed Way.

It gets you out of the "problems" mindset and moves you quickly to happiness in marriage.

It's brand new.

I took all my other 12 programs down because THIS is the answer to marriage happiness.

There's nothing else like it.

Go here

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

The sooner you change direction, the sooner you'll find the real answers.

To your great relationship future,

Dr. Max

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Old wounds in marriage

Everyone has them.

Old wounds from experiences you've had in your marriage.

Show me someone who is completely unscathed - who has never felt resentment, betrayal, disappointment or disloyalty in their marriage.

Show me this person and I'll show you someone who is in a hypnotic trance.

The rest of us are aware of suffering and pain... it may be very "low grade" but it's still there.

It still colors our decisions.

It still affects us.

And for many people - maybe you - if things just got "a little worse" you'd start thinking it was time to bail on the marriage.

Don't let it get that far.

It's fairly easy to turn things around with some basic skills taught by a seasoned professional.

That's why I made this for you

Couples Coach

http://www.CouplesCoach.com

Go there and get immediate help before things get worse.

I get it, now let me help

-Dr. Max

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How does your marriage rate? http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

How does your marriage rate

on a scale of 0 - 20?

Find out instantly:

http://www.easymarriagecounseling.com

To your great relationship future,

Dr. Max

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