Husband school

Most men want to be great husbands.

But we don't want to be criticized for our efforts either.

And we don't want gobbledegook from some therapist.

We just want instructions.

Do this, don't do that.

But we DON'T want you ladies telling us that!

And we aren't going to ask our guy friends or anyone else how to do it.

So I snuck one in here.

Guys, this is just simple, follow this information

http://www.MakeHerAppreciateYou.com

- Dr. Max

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The importance of rapid improvement in your marriage

Patience may be a virtue but it can also cause more problems.

Most of the time when things are going wrong in your marriage, it's bad to wait.

What happens is that small things build up and accumulate.

Maybe something that's "no big deal" right now becomes a big deal tomorrow.

You let something go, a comment about your in-laws.

Maybe a little flirtation you saw your husband have with a woman.

Maybe a parenting question.

You let it go because you don't want to fight.

But at the same time, it sticks in your craw.

But what are you supposed to do about it, fight about everything?

NO.

What you are supposed to do about it is to have a plan to deal with things NOW.

Something simple and quick and easy.

Something you understand.

Something which is not therapist gobbledegook.

But at the same time is solid professional help.

That's why I made Ten Days to Save Your Marriage.

You can use it five minutes from now.

Here's where to find it.

http://www.TenDaysToAGoodMarriage.com

Bless you and yours,

- Dr. Max

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Where is the source of your wealth?

Ever wonder how the rich REALLY get richer?

It isn't what you think.

This page explains:

http://www.MoneyInYourMind.com

Everyone needs more money, this shows you how to get it.

- Dr. Max

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How to recover after your partner has an affair

One of the most devastating things you can discover is that your partner is having an affair.

Especially when you had no clue.

Especially when you truly felt that your life together was very good.

Maybe not perfect... but very good.

Overly clever therapists and other "relationship helpers" like to say it's partly your fault.

I think that is not only cruel, it misses the point.

The point is when you are betrayed you have to reconstruct your whole life.

It rips you apart like almost nothing else in your life will.

And THEN all kinds of people have advice for you.

They tell you to "move on" but no one tells you how.

For decades I've seen people struggle with being in your position.

Betrayed, confused, not knowing what to do next.

I want to share with you what I've told them.

Go here for some answers:

http://www.ThriveAfterTheAffair.com

- Dr. Max

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God wants you to connect in your marriage.

There is a force bigger and higher than you.

 

God and Relationship - the forces that are in and behind everything in the universe - want you to connect.

 

They want you to have a happy marriage.

 

Once you hook up with that force you cannot help but have a wonderful positive and successful marriage.

 

They are the source of all.

 

The closer you are to God and Relationship, the more joy and wellbeing you'll have.

 

The farther you are from God and Relationship, the more doubt, pain and suffering you'll have.

 

It's a LAW.

Find out more here

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/3index.html

 

- Dr. Max

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Weekend sex tip March 19-20 2011

When you have a fun trip coming up, you are looking forward to it.

When there's a big game or a big event in your child's life coming...

When a child is going to be born...

When you get to move into the new house...

When you get to see a long-lost friend once again...

When you're next going to have sex together...  WHAT?

For many married couples the anticipation of sex isn't there.

After all, you can have it "any" time (but  you don't much anymore).

For this weekend I suggest you make a "sex date" with each other this weeekend.

Decide where and when you're going to rendezvous.

If you already have a time you normally have sex on the weekend, change it.

Instead of Sunday afternoon (or in addition) make a different time.

And spice it up.

Decide you're going to do something sexually you haven't for a long time.

Or something new.

Talk about it in advance - that's the most important part of this.

OK, what is sex?

You decide.

If it's intercourse, sure.

If it's exchanging backrubs then that.

Another time we'll talk about what sex is.

For now, just make that date.

- Dr. Max

 And for the best married sex of your life, here

http://www.lovesexandmarriage.com

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Ten days to a better marriage (the easy way)

If you ask one of my colleagues about marital change, they'll say it's hard.

Especially if you have a long term history of conflict or unhappiness.

They'll say it takes a long time, concentrated effort and determination.

And privately they'll tell one another that couples are impossible

Most of them would rather cozy up with individual patients.

It's much easier and less threatening that way.

But I don't blame them.

If I thought the way they do about marital happiness and change, I'd do the same.

But I don't.

I believe - and can prove from many years of documentation - that change can be easy.

If you want to be happier in your marriage, there's the hard way and the easy way.

There's the long way and the short way.

Here's the easy way.  The short cut:

http://www.TenDaysToAGoodMarriage.com

- Dr. Max

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How to be a better husband (let me save your bacon)

Most of us husbands have discovered the hard way we don't know how to do the job.

By the hard way I mean, mostly we've been informed of what we're NOT doing.

By our wives.

Different guys respond to this in different ways.

Some get an attitude.

Some feel insulted.

Some get indifferent.

Some go have affairs.

Some really want to figure it out but don't know where the user's manual is.

I worked on this one for quite a while, both as a professional and a husband.

Now I'm going to save your bacon:

http://www.MakeHerAppreciateYou.com

- Dr. Max

P.S. No nonsense, just the straight skinny.

http://www.MakeHerAppreciateYou.com

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Old wounds, affairs and healing

Most long term marriages carry scars.

 

At one time or another over the years, somebody felt betrayed.

 

It just happens.

 

It can be the result of affairs.

 

It might because of disagreements.

 

It might be because of money losses, parenting differences, in-law troubles.

 

And it might be because you feel your partner isn't who they claimed to be.

 

You may feel let down, disappointed.

 

Can you heal those old wounds?

 

The answer is NO.

 

You cannot heal them.

 

Your partner cannot heal them.

 

Something greater than you is needed.

 

There is something beyond what we usually call "forgiveness."

 

Something much deeper.

 

Something much better than "healing old wounds."

 

Something which heals far more deeply.

 

I'll tell you about it in this presentation

 

http://www.ThriveAfterTheAffair.com

To your great relationship future,

 

Dr. Max

 

P.S.  Dramatic breakthroughs happen.  I hear about them every day.

Some call them miracles.  I call it good science:

http://www.ThriveAfterTheAffair.com

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How are things in the bedroom?

It's wonderful to have intimate conversations.

To spend time together enjoying each other's company.

But, let's be frank.

How are things in the bedroom?

Not great?

If that's your situation (and for most people it is), then it's time for some clear, simple and straightforward help.

Here ya go

http://www.lovesexandmarriage.com

- Dr. Max

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Half-Price Sale Ends Tomorrow at Midnight

 There's a famous television comedian who tells people in their marriage who are being stubborn "you're just wastin' daylight."

 

Well there's no need to waste daylight anymore.

 

It's time to use some up in the right way.

 

The right way is this.

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/daylight

 

- Dr. Max

 

P.S. Half Price Sale Ends Sunday night at midnight EST!

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/daylight

 

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Are You With the Right Person? Here's How to Find out

It's a natural enough question, and one you've probably asked yourself.

 

"Am I with the right person?"

 

Let me just say this before we go any further.

 

You probably are with the right person.

 

But maybe in the wrong way.

 

Assuming you're married, at one time weren't you pretty sure you were marrying the right person?

 

(Some people have a bad feeling from the beginning, I hope that's not you.)

 

So let's change the question to this:

 

How could I be with my partner in a way that feels right?

 

The fastest, simplest and best way to get there is...

 

to begin to function on the Creative and not the Competitive Plane.

 

Almost everyone I've ever shown how to do this finds out something.

 

They find out that they are indeed with the right person.

 

But because of cultural mmisunderstandings they were doubting.

 

Use the Creative method and not the Competitive one.

 

It will make all the difference.

And now, I'm having a 50% off Daylight Savings Special Sale

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/daylight

 

 

- Dr. Max

 

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Daylight Savings Time Special (50% off)

There's a famous television comedian who tells people in their marriage who are being stubborn "you're just wastin' daylight."

 

Well there's no need to waste daylight anymore.

 

It's time to use some up in the right way.

 

The right way is this.

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/daylight

 

- Dr. Max

 

P.S. Half Price Sale Ends Sunday night at midnight!

 

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com/daylight

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Well-being, health, happiness and wealth can be yours IF...

Research study after research study prove it.

 

Being happy in marriage is the best thing you can do.

 

It produces more overall health.

 

It produces more wealth.

 

It produces a greater sense of well-being.

 

It produces more internal confidence.

 

It produces a sense of calm and pleasure.

 

Happily married people have a better life.

 

Stay on the path... the more you follow the Prescribed Way, the better.

Get started here:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

 

- Dr. Max

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God wants you to be happy in your marriage

There is a force bigger and higher than you.

God and Relationship - the forces that are in and behind everything in the universe - want you to connect.

They want you to have a happy marriage.

Once you hook up with that force you cannot help but have a wonderful positive and successful marriage.

They are the source of all.

The closer you are to God and Relationship, the more joy and wellbeing you'll have.

The farther you are from God and Relationship, the more doubt, pain and suffering you'll have.

It's a LAW.

Learn more about it here

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

- Dr. Max

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The only chance you'll ever have to be truly loved in this life

Marriage - true marriage - is the best chance you'll ever have to be known and loved in this life.

All other relationships can have a wonderful aspect and pleasure and meaning to them.

But all other relationships are, by definition, limited.

Your children can never know you fully.

Your friends can never know you fully.

Even your best friend can never know you fully.

They don't sleep with you.

They don't have to deal with you when you are not at your best.

They don't have to deal with being taken for granted!

Only the intimacy of marriage offers these opportunities fully.

Being known completely and being loved completely.

That's the ultimate joy in this life.

Here's where to start with true marriage:

http://www.EasyMarriageCounseling.com

= Dr. Max

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