Friday, July 13, 2012

Are you lying to your children? (Fish or cut bait)

"The all-too-frequent mistake of waiting until the kids are grown (and the woman is past her prime) is the most irrationally selfish action a husband can take. Such a man not only wastes the best years ofhis own life,but also cheats his spouse of her youth and subjects innocent children to a daily lie. With this kind of scenario playing out so regularly, is it any wonder that children grow up thinking that love isn't a necessary ingredient for a healthy marriage?" - Robert Ringer

I've heard it a thousand times.

"I think we should stay together for the sake of the children."

But if you're not going to give them a healthy model of adult relationships, what good does that do?

The only real answer is fish or cut bait.

Either become real and true intimate lovers and spouses or make a clean break.

Do one or the other but don't just sit there.

Let's make a move:

- Dr. Max

Posted via email from Marriage Counseling, Save Your Marriage, Stop Your Divorce

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