Have you tried lots of way to make your marriage better... and still feel frustrated if not even discouraged?
I get it.
Don't give up... use something new and different!
WARNING: it had better be really diferent, not the "usual."
There are a lot of great programs out there - including mine - to help you in your marriage.
But for lots of couples, programs don't work as well as one might expect.
There are also a lot of great marriage counselors out there...
But for lots of people marriage counseling is not very effective.
There are statistics on this (which your marriage counselor will not share with you) and they aren't very flattering to the profession.
And there are weekend workshops or seminars.
They tend to work ok until you wake up to Monday morning and to reality.
Would you like to try out something really new?
(New to you anyway.
Not new to me.)
It's something I've been doing for many years.
Clients have found it extremely effective.
And a dramatic departure from the usual "same old same old" relationship advice.
Here's some good news.
If you are one of the limited number of people I choose for this work, you'll experience something very amazing.
And eye-opening.
It could just be the thing that completely transforms your marriage into what you always dreamed it could be.
It's worked like a charm for many couples already.
But I've never publicly announced it.
It's been something I used only with private clients and direct referrals.
I wanted to make sure it was as effective as it seemed by testing it with a significant number of couples.
The results are in.
It works.
It's "robust" meaning it works with people from any and every background.
Any and every kind of relationship or marriage.
Straight, gay, married, long term, short term... doesn't matter.
This can work with anyone and everyone.
It's based on a recognition that people share certain qualities, needs, feelings and thoughts...
But we are each also individuals and have our own private "styles."
There are different kinds of learners.
Different styles, speeds and rates of absorption of information.
Different levels of reaction and different levels of calmness or nervousness.
This method goes WAY beyond anything else to address those differences, so you can truly connect in a brand new way.
This is about individual difference and what this method does is erase the problems usually associated with those while in couples or marriage counseling.
And then there's men and women.
One of the reasons "traditional" marriage counseling doesn't work is that it's really an activity designed for women.
Very few men like being in counseling.
Some do, but not many.
Most consider it about the same amount of pleasantness as getting a snake bite.
Now, I don't want you to think this method is something based on wacky principles or techniques.
Yes, it's as radical as can be, but it's also based on my 30 years of practice as a couples counselor.
It's solid as a rock.
It's a new way of using tested, proven methods.
It's a way that just "goes around" the usual problems in marriage counseling, while still using the most powerful and basic principles of psychology and relationships.
It makes things possible that have never been possible before.
And in addition to all of that it's very simple.
It's non-threatening.
It's calm.
You don't have to hire a babysitter.
You don't have to take time off work to drive to an appointment.
And neither do you have to read a long boring book or watch a bunch of confusing videos or listen to long winded audios.
The clearest way to put it is this:
The New Method is really just a way to take what you ALREADY KNOW deep inside of your very best self and use that - along with some new things you may not have considered - and turn on the switch to make your relationship work.
On a whole brand new level.
This can open the doors to a brand new kind of relationship
Not just one that's as great as anything you've imagined, but more amazing than you can even envision now.
If you think you might like to try something new and truly powerful in transforming your marriage, email me for details:
- Dr. Max
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