That creeping feeling of inequality in marriage

Both sexes feel it.

I've heard it from men and from women.

"It's not fair...

I do all the ___________

He never does any!"

"It's not fair...

I do all the __________

She never does any!"

You feel it, you've been there.

Everyone has.

But what do you do about it?

Sulk?  Get mad?  Demand change?

Seek revenge, plot how you are going to get even?

Stuff it and keep your mouth shut?

Come on, be honest.

You know what you should do.

You should discuss it.

But there's a problem.

You think you are an excellent communicator, but your partner isn't.

That's not true.  Neither one of you knows how to communicate.

Yes, you can talk about "easy" things.

You can talk about interests in common.

When it gets to the "hot topics" - it goes nowhere.

That's why you have that feeling all the time that even though things are ok they are never "quite right."

There are things you are doing wrong.

If you need help in golf, you get a few lessons from a golf pro.

When you need help in communicating, you go to a communications pro.

That's what I do.

That's why I made this for you
http://www.NowYouCanCommunicate.com

Or you can sit there and sulk or plot revenge, your choice.

- Dr. Max

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